Service
Marriage counseling to work through conflict and reconnect
Therapy for married couples working through conflict, distance, trust, and the weight a marriage carries.
Or call (646) 493-4007
Choose a time and send your request. It takes about 30 seconds and one short form.
4.95from 113 reviews
In-network with
- UnitedHealthcare
- Aetna
- Medicare
- Oscar Health
- Meritain Health
- Oxford Health Plans
- Cigna
- Optum
- Highmark BCBS WNY
- Univera Healthcare
- MagnaCare
- Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield
Industry-leading, structured care
Progress measured monthly, not guessed at
We respond within one business day
Every clinician state-licensed
Why MindView
Most Marriage Counseling has no structure. Ours has four stages and a scoreboard.
Most practices deliver Marriage Counseling however the therapist you happened to get was trained. We run one format for every client, and we measure it.
- 01
Intake
What is actually going on, rated 0 to 10 as your baseline.
- 02
Your history
Why it is happening. History, relationships, work, health.
- 03
Treatment plan
Written and collaborative, built against those causes.
- 04
Monthly review
Standardized measures, reviewed with you. You see the trend.
A license is where our training starts, not where it ends.
Every clinician is state-licensed before they see a single client. Then they train with us across every modality, and how to match one to the problem in front of them.
What clients say
4.95 averagefrom 113 reviews
- 5 out of 5 stars
MindView Therapy has great customer service and is very flexible, with good therapist availability and clear communication of any changes. Genuinely a great place for therapy with zero judgement.
Kailani M.
Verified review
- 5 out of 5 stars
The support staff was very helpful in assisting me to find the right provider. And the provider they found me is personable, a good listener, has good advice, and appears to be quite knowledgeable. I'm very happy with my decision to go with MindView.
Kevin R.
Verified review
- 5 out of 5 stars
I truly felt seen, heard and understood by my therapist. Goals and next step expectations were clearly explained for processing.
Diane S.
Verified review
- 5 out of 5 stars
I had a great onboarding experience with MindView. My therapist took the time to do a really thorough intake, which I appreciated, and the staff keeps communication clear and consistent. Plus, they handled my insurance verification hassle free.
Jennifer P.
Verified review
- 5 out of 5 stars
I'm new to this therapy place, however the couples therapist we are seeing is amazing so far. She's a great listener and I can't wait to see how much further we can get with her guidance.
Maritza M.
Verified review
- 5 out of 5 stars
Great therapists, excellent customer service.
Meta
Verified review
- 5 out of 5 stars
My therapist has been incredibly supportive and compassionate. She creates a safe, welcoming space, and I truly feel heard and understood. I'm very grateful for her guidance. Highly recommend.
Laura S.
Verified review
- 5 out of 5 stars
The clinician is helpful. I would recommend this to my friends. I can communicate better with my family members. Thanks for your cooperation.
Sharmin S.
Verified review
- 5 out of 5 stars
The process to find a therapist was very smooth and quick. The intake did take some time, but it was a very thorough process. Overall a great service and very helpful.
Jorge Z.
Verified review
- 5 out of 5 stars
Helpful, and they let you know everything in advance.
Naphtali S.
Verified review
- 5 out of 5 stars
MindView Therapy has been wonderful to work with. The team is kind, responsive, and made the entire process feel easy from the start. I always felt heard and supported, and I really appreciate the compassionate care I've received. Highly recommend.
Angela D.
Verified review
- 5 out of 5 stars
I've had a great experience with MindView. They are easy to communicate with and handle my needs quickly. I've had some great sessions with my therapist and would highly recommend checking them out.
Kylah B.
Verified review
- 5 out of 5 stars
My therapist has done a great job of teaching me how to translate my thoughts into personal feelings, as well as helpful techniques to deal with my anxiety.
Ladale N.
Verified review
- 5 out of 5 stars
I cannot say enough good things about my counselor. From the very start she made me feel heard, respected, and supported without judgement. She is a great listener and challenges me to grow in healthy ways.
Barbara D.
Verified review
- 5 out of 5 stars
She is such a great therapist. She really listens to what you are saying and helps you figure out situations.
Leah D.
Verified review
- 5 out of 5 stars
The process from start to finish is made so easy. You get assigned to someone quickly and can choose from various time slots to work around your schedule. No sitting on a phone waiting, just quick and to the point with every step.
Shannon G.
Verified review
- 5 out of 5 stars
I've had such a positive experience with MindView Therapy. The sessions have given me so much clarity and practical tools to handle life's ups and downs. I feel more equipped and confident moving forward. If you are looking for a supportive and insightful therapy experience, I highly recommend them.
Lucie L.
Verified review
- 5 out of 5 stars
She is an amazing therapist. She understands me and where I am coming from without hesitation. It is a complete judgement-free zone.
Barbie Z.
Verified review
- 5 out of 5 stars
I've had a really wonderful experience at MindView. My therapist is a great listener and always made me feel heard and understood. I've seen meaningful progress. Would recommend.
Manana D.
Verified review
- 5 out of 5 stars
Kind, helpful, and good at what they do! My therapist is truly one-of-a-kind, and has helped me so much.
Nick B.
Verified review
Marriage counseling is structured work with both spouses and a therapist on what strains a marriage: communication, conflict, trust, intimacy, and distance. Sessions are balanced so each of you is heard. You map the pattern that keeps you stuck, practice new ways to talk and repair, and decide together what your marriage becomes next.
Does this sound like you?
- We have been married for years and we talk about logistics, not each other.
- Every disagreement turns into the same fight about who does more.
- Something broke my trust and I cannot tell whether it can be repaired.
- We are staying together for the kids, and we both know it.
- The word divorce has come up, out loud or in my head.
- One of us keeps trying and the other has stopped.
- I love my spouse and I do not feel married anymore.
You do not have to be in crisis to start. If several of these sound familiar, therapy can help.
If several of these sound familiar, that is worth talking about.
Choose a time and send your request. It takes about 30 seconds and one short form.
Marriage counseling is structured work on the marriage itself: how you talk, how you fight, how you repair, and how close you are after everything the years have added.
What is marriage counseling?
It is sessions with both spouses and a therapist, focused on the marriage rather than on either person. The pattern between you is the client.
A marriage carries weight that other relationships do not: shared money, merged families, often children, and a long history that both of you read differently. The American Psychological Association points to communication and conflict management as central to relationship satisfaction, and both are things two people build together. Counseling works on the pattern with all of that weight in the room.
Is marriage counseling different from couples therapy?
The core work is the same, and at MindView the same clinicians do both. The difference is scope. Marriage counseling takes on the pressures specific to a marriage: finances, in-laws, parenting, the division of labor, intimacy after years together, and decisions about the future of the marriage itself.
You do not need to be married to work with us as a couple. Partners at any stage can book couples therapy, and engaged couples often come for premarital counseling.
What do couples bring to marriage counseling?
The same fight on repeat is the most common. So is distance: two people running a household well and no longer reaching each other.
Resentment builds quietly in a marriage, often through scorekeeping about money, chores, and parenting, until small disagreements stand in for years of unsaid things. Trust is another. An affair, a hidden debt, or a long pattern of unreliability does not repair on its own, and most couples do not know the steps. And some arrive because divorce is on the table and they want to be sure before they decide.
Will the counselor take sides or push us to stay together?
No, on both counts. Your therapist keeps the room balanced so that both people are heard, including the one who is less comfortable talking.
Balance does not mean neutrality about behavior. If something is causing harm, your therapist will name it. But the work is not a trial, and your therapist has no agenda about whether the marriage continues. That decision stays yours.
What does the work actually involve?
Your first session is an intake: what brought you in, the history of the marriage, and a 0 to 10 rating of the conflict, the distance, and the strain on trust. The early work covers each spouse’s history, which shows what each of you brings into the room. The treatment plan is built together out of that, with goals tied to the marriage and one personal goal for each of you.
From there, weekly sessions map the pattern. Who pursues, who withdraws, what triggers the loop, and what each of you is protecting.
Then you build skills: raising concerns without attacking, listening without defending, pausing before escalation, and repairing afterward. These are practiced in session, not just described, because they only matter under real pressure.
The work then goes to the substance: trust, resentment, intimacy, money, parenting, and the decisions you have been avoiding. What gets addressed is what you both agree to address.
Once a month you and your therapist review standardized measures together, so progress is tracked rather than guessed at, and the plan is adjusted based on what they show.
Does insurance cover marriage counseling?
We are in-network with most major plans across our Queens, Buffalo, and Carmel, IN offices. Coverage for couples sessions varies by plan, so we verify your benefits before your first appointment and tell you what to expect. You will not be surprised by a bill you did not see coming.
What if we are already talking about divorce?
That is a legitimate reason to come, and it is more common than people think.
Counseling can help you make that decision with more clarity instead of by exhaustion. Some couples reconnect. Some decide to separate with less damage than they would have otherwise. Your therapist does not push either outcome.
It also helps to say it out loud in the room. Many couples spend months circling the word privately, and the silence does more harm than the doubt. Naming it usually lowers the pressure rather than raising it, and it lets the work address what is actually happening between you.
Is it too late after years of this?
That question usually comes from the spouse who has been asking for change the longest. It is a fair question, and no therapist can answer it in advance or promise you an outcome.
What we can say is that couples who arrive tired are not the same as couples who are finished. Many people wait years before coming in, and the delay makes the work harder, not impossible. The useful question is not whether it is too late. It is whether both of you are willing to try something different for a few months.
What if my spouse will not come?
Start on your own. You can only ever run your half of a pattern, and changing your half often changes the pattern. It is not the same as working together, and it is far better than waiting.
How do we get started?
You can book online at any time, or call (646) 493-4007 to talk with someone first. We are in-network with most major plans. Coverage for couples sessions varies, so we confirm your benefits before your first appointment.
We see clients in Jamaica, Queens, in Buffalo, and in Carmel, Indiana, with sessions conducted by telehealth across New York and Indiana, including spouses joining from different places. Care is focused on your goals as a couple, whatever they are.
What does it look like?
- •The same fights on repeat without resolution
- •Living like roommates instead of spouses
- •A breach of trust you cannot move past
- •Constant tension about money, parenting, or in-laws
- •Thoughts of separation or divorce, spoken or not
Who is this for?
- •Married couples who want to communicate and reconnect
- •Spouses working through conflict, resentment, or a breach of trust
- •Couples deciding whether to repair the marriage or separate
What does therapy here actually look like?
The first three sessions follow a clear structure, so you always know what is coming next.
- Getting started
Your therapist asks what brought you in and the history of the marriage. Both spouses speak, and you rate the intensity of the conflict, the distance, and the strain on trust on a 0 to 10 scale. That becomes the baseline. You set a recurring weekly time before you leave.
- Understanding the history
Your therapist walks through each spouse's life across childhood, adolescence, and adulthood, looking for the patterns and strengths each of you brings into the marriage, including family, money, and past relationships. You can decline any question.
- Building the plan
You build the plan together. Goals are tied to the marriage, such as breaking the same-fight loop, rebuilding trust after a breach, and restoring closeness, each with concrete objectives. Each of you also sets one personal goal that matters to you.
- Ongoing
Weekly sessions work the plan on the issues that matter most, including trust, resentment, intimacy, and decisions about the future. Once a month you and your therapist review standardized measures to see whether it is working, and the plan is adjusted.
Therapy here is measured, not guessed
Once a month you have a measurement-based care review. You complete standardized measures, and your therapist reviews the trend with you. If something is not working, the plan changes. Regular therapy is the work. The review is the navigation system that keeps it pointed at the right target.
Sessions are weekly for the first two months to build a foundation, then frequency is reassessed with you. You set the pace, and you share only what you are comfortable sharing.
You do not have to figure this out alone.
Choose a time and send your request. It takes about 30 seconds and one short form.
Common questions
Do you take insurance, and what will marriage counseling cost?
We are in-network with most major plans. In New York: UnitedHealthcare, Aetna, Medicare, Oscar Health, Meritain Health, Oxford Health Plans, Cigna, Optum, Highmark BCBS WNY, Univera Healthcare and MagnaCare. In Indiana: Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield, Cigna and Aetna. Coverage for couples sessions varies by plan, so we verify your benefits before your first appointment and tell you what to expect.
Is marriage counseling different from couples therapy?
The core work is the same, and at MindView the same clinicians do both. Marriage counseling, sometimes called marital counseling, is couples therapy for married partners, with the specific pressures of a marriage in scope, including shared finances, in-laws, parenting, and decisions about the future of the marriage.
What happens in the first session?
Both spouses describe what brought you in. Your therapist listens to each of you, asks what you want to be different, and works with you to set goals for the sessions ahead. Nobody is put on trial.
How long does marriage counseling take, and does it work?
It depends on what you are working on. Many couples meet weekly for a few months. No therapist can promise a specific outcome, but the work gives you a clear view of your pattern and practical tools to change it.
Can we do this by telehealth, and how soon can we be seen?
Yes. Telehealth works well for couples, including spouses joining from different locations, anywhere in New York or Indiana. We also see clients in our Jamaica, Buffalo, and Carmel, IN offices, and we respond within one business day.
What if we are already talking about divorce?
That is a legitimate reason to come. Counseling can help you understand the marriage and make a decision with more clarity, whatever you decide. Your therapist does not push either outcome.
How do you fix a marriage after infidelity?
A marriage can recover after an affair, though it takes time and is not the same as returning to how things were. It requires the affair to fully end, honesty and transparency from the partner who cheated, and space for the hurt partner to process without being rushed. Trust rebuilds through consistent action over months. Marriage counseling gives the repair structure and a neutral space.
How do you save a marriage after infidelity?
Saving a marriage after infidelity starts with both partners wanting to repair it and the affair being completely over. From there it is honest conversation, rebuilding transparency, and patience, since trust returns slowly through repeated reliability. Many couples cannot do this alone because the conversations spiral. A marriage counselor helps slow things down and keeps the process safe.
How do you repair a marriage after infidelity?
Repair after infidelity means the partner who cheated becomes fully transparent and stops minimizing, while the hurt partner gets to feel the impact at their own pace. It is built on many small, reliable actions over time, not one apology. Counseling helps you both understand how the relationship reached this point and decide, clearly, how to rebuild.
How do you rebuild a marriage when trust is broken?
Rebuilding broken trust takes consistency, honesty, and time. The person who broke it makes their reliability visible day to day; the hurt partner sets much of the pace and is not pushed to forgive on a schedule. It helps to work on the patterns underneath, not just the incident. Couples counseling provides a structured, neutral space for that work.
Can a marriage survive infidelity?
Many marriages do survive infidelity, and some become more honest afterward, though not every couple chooses to stay, and that can be healthy too. Survival depends on both partners wanting to repair it, the affair ending completely, and a willingness to do hard, patient work. Counseling improves the odds by giving the process structure and support.
How do you rekindle a marriage?
Rekindling a marriage usually means rebuilding connection deliberately: turning toward each other, making time for closeness, repairing after conflict instead of letting resentment build, and remembering what drew you together. It rarely happens by accident once life gets busy. Couples counseling can help you break negative cycles and rebuild warmth, whether or not there has been a specific crisis.
Is marriage counseling worth it?
For many couples, yes. Research on couples therapy shows it helps a majority of couples improve, though no therapist can guarantee an outcome. It is most useful when both partners engage, and it works best sought earlier rather than as a last resort. It can also help a couple decide, thoughtfully, whether to stay together.
When should you get marriage counseling?
Sooner than most couples do. Good times include recurring arguments that never resolve, drifting apart, a betrayal, a major life change, or simply feeling stuck. You do not have to be on the brink; counseling can strengthen a basically good marriage too. Waiting until resentment is deep makes the work harder, though it is rarely too late to try.
Your questions, answered in full
How do I get started?
- 1
Check your insurance
Most major plans are accepted, and checking takes under a minute.
See if we take your insurance - 2
- 3
Meet your therapist
Your first session is an intake. Your therapist asks what brought you in, and you set a weekly time together.
Our locations
Take the first step
You do not have to figure this out alone. Booking takes about 30 seconds.