Treatment approach
Reality Therapy at MindView
A present-focused, action-oriented approach that helps you make choices and take steps that move you toward the life and relationships you want.
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4.95from 113 reviews
In-network with
- UnitedHealthcare
- Aetna
- Medicare
- Oscar Health
- Meritain Health
- Oxford Health Plans
- Cigna
- Optum
- Highmark BCBS WNY
- Univera Healthcare
- MagnaCare
- Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield
Industry-leading, structured care
Progress measured monthly, not guessed at
We respond within one business day
Every clinician state-licensed
Why MindView
The method is only as good as the decision to use it.
Most practices use the one approach they trained in, on everyone. Reality Therapy is one of many ours are trained in, and which one you get is decided by what is actually driving the problem, then reviewed against monthly measures.
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Intake
What is actually going on, rated 0 to 10 as your baseline.
- 02
Your history
Why it is happening. History, relationships, work, health.
- 03
Treatment plan
Written and collaborative, built against those causes.
- 04
Monthly review
Standardized measures, reviewed with you. You see the trend.
A license is where our training starts, not where it ends.
Every clinician is state-licensed before they see a single client. Then they train with us across every modality, and how to match one to the problem in front of them.
What clients say
4.95 averagefrom 113 reviews
- 5 out of 5 stars
MindView Therapy has great customer service and is very flexible, with good therapist availability and clear communication of any changes. Genuinely a great place for therapy with zero judgement.
Kailani M.
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- 5 out of 5 stars
The support staff was very helpful in assisting me to find the right provider. And the provider they found me is personable, a good listener, has good advice, and appears to be quite knowledgeable. I'm very happy with my decision to go with MindView.
Kevin R.
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- 5 out of 5 stars
I truly felt seen, heard and understood by my therapist. Goals and next step expectations were clearly explained for processing.
Diane S.
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- 5 out of 5 stars
I had a great onboarding experience with MindView. My therapist took the time to do a really thorough intake, which I appreciated, and the staff keeps communication clear and consistent. Plus, they handled my insurance verification hassle free.
Jennifer P.
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- 5 out of 5 stars
I'm new to this therapy place, however the couples therapist we are seeing is amazing so far. She's a great listener and I can't wait to see how much further we can get with her guidance.
Maritza M.
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- 5 out of 5 stars
Great therapists, excellent customer service.
Meta
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- 5 out of 5 stars
My therapist has been incredibly supportive and compassionate. She creates a safe, welcoming space, and I truly feel heard and understood. I'm very grateful for her guidance. Highly recommend.
Laura S.
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- 5 out of 5 stars
The clinician is helpful. I would recommend this to my friends. I can communicate better with my family members. Thanks for your cooperation.
Sharmin S.
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- 5 out of 5 stars
The process to find a therapist was very smooth and quick. The intake did take some time, but it was a very thorough process. Overall a great service and very helpful.
Jorge Z.
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- 5 out of 5 stars
Helpful, and they let you know everything in advance.
Naphtali S.
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- 5 out of 5 stars
MindView Therapy has been wonderful to work with. The team is kind, responsive, and made the entire process feel easy from the start. I always felt heard and supported, and I really appreciate the compassionate care I've received. Highly recommend.
Angela D.
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- 5 out of 5 stars
I've had a great experience with MindView. They are easy to communicate with and handle my needs quickly. I've had some great sessions with my therapist and would highly recommend checking them out.
Kylah B.
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- 5 out of 5 stars
My therapist has done a great job of teaching me how to translate my thoughts into personal feelings, as well as helpful techniques to deal with my anxiety.
Ladale N.
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- 5 out of 5 stars
I cannot say enough good things about my counselor. From the very start she made me feel heard, respected, and supported without judgement. She is a great listener and challenges me to grow in healthy ways.
Barbara D.
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- 5 out of 5 stars
She is such a great therapist. She really listens to what you are saying and helps you figure out situations.
Leah D.
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- 5 out of 5 stars
The process from start to finish is made so easy. You get assigned to someone quickly and can choose from various time slots to work around your schedule. No sitting on a phone waiting, just quick and to the point with every step.
Shannon G.
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- 5 out of 5 stars
I've had such a positive experience with MindView Therapy. The sessions have given me so much clarity and practical tools to handle life's ups and downs. I feel more equipped and confident moving forward. If you are looking for a supportive and insightful therapy experience, I highly recommend them.
Lucie L.
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- 5 out of 5 stars
She is an amazing therapist. She understands me and where I am coming from without hesitation. It is a complete judgement-free zone.
Barbie Z.
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- 5 out of 5 stars
I've had a really wonderful experience at MindView. My therapist is a great listener and always made me feel heard and understood. I've seen meaningful progress. Would recommend.
Manana D.
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- 5 out of 5 stars
Kind, helpful, and good at what they do! My therapist is truly one-of-a-kind, and has helped me so much.
Nick B.
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Reality therapy is a present-focused talk therapy. It starts from the idea that you can control your own behavior, even when you cannot control other people. Your therapist helps you name what you want, look honestly at what you are doing, and build a plan you can actually follow.
Might this approach fit you?
- You want practical steps you can take this week, not just insight.
- You feel stuck and want to know what to actually do about it.
- You are tired of waiting for other people to change first.
- You know what you want but keep failing to follow through.
- You would rather talk about now than spend months on your history.
- You want a therapist who will hold you to the plan you made.
You do not have to be in crisis to start. If several of these sound familiar, therapy can help.
If this sounds like the support you want, we can help.
Choose a time and send your request. It takes about 30 seconds and one short form.
Reality therapy is a present-focused, action-oriented form of talk therapy developed by psychiatrist William Glasser. It rests on a practical idea. You can control your own behavior, even when you cannot control other people or your circumstances.
What is choice theory?
Choice theory is the thinking behind reality therapy. It says that most of what you do is chosen, even when it does not feel that way, and that the only behavior you can directly control is your own.
That sounds obvious. In practice, most people spend enormous energy trying to change someone else. A partner, a boss, a parent. When that fails, the result is frustration and a sense of powerlessness.
Choice theory redirects that energy. It asks what you can do, given the situation you are actually in.
Glasser also described a set of basic human needs: connection, a sense of power or competence, freedom, fun, and survival. When one of those needs goes unmet for long enough, distress shows up. Naming which need is missing often makes the problem much clearer.
How does reality therapy actually work?
Sessions are structured around a simple set of questions. What do you want? What are you doing right now? Is that working? If not, what will you do differently?
The second question is the hard one. Reality therapy asks you to look honestly at your own behavior without the story you usually tell about it. Your therapist does this without judgment, but does not let it slide either.
From there you build a plan. Not a vague intention, but something specific, realistic, and yours. The next session starts with how it went.
If the plan did not work, you do not get scolded. You adjust it. Excuses are gently declined, but so is shame.
Who tends to do well with reality therapy?
It fits people who are tired of talking in circles and want traction. If you know roughly what you want but cannot seem to move toward it, this approach meets you where you are.
It is commonly used for low motivation, relationship difficulties, and that heavy feeling of being stuck. It is also used in schools, workplaces, and coaching settings, and adapts well to everyday decision-making.
Reality therapy pays close attention to relationships, because Glasser saw most unhappiness as rooted in a relationship that is not going well. Sessions often focus there.
It may not be the right first step if you are in acute crisis or need trauma-specific care. Your therapist will tell you plainly if something else should come first. The William Glasser Institute maintains the training standards for the approach.
Does reality therapy ignore my past?
Not exactly. Your therapist will listen to your history and take it seriously. What happened to you is real and it matters.
But the work does not stay there. Reality therapy takes the view that you cannot change what already happened, and that dwelling on it can quietly become another way of avoiding a decision.
So the past gets acknowledged, then the focus moves to what is in front of you. Some people find this liberating. Others prefer a deeper, more exploratory therapy, and that is a fair preference. Your therapist will help you find the fit.
Is reality therapy evidence-based?
Reality therapy is best described as a practical, widely used counseling approach with a long track record in clinical, school, and community settings. It has been studied, though less extensively than cognitive behavioral therapy.
We will describe that honestly rather than overstate it. If your concern has a strongly supported first-line treatment, such as anxiety, depression, or PTSD, your therapist will tell you and may recommend that instead or alongside. The American Psychological Association is a useful plain-language starting point on how psychotherapy is chosen.
What this looks like at MindView
Our clinicians may draw on reality therapy and choice theory within collaborative care. Care is paced to you, and the plans are yours, not ours.
We see adults in Jamaica, Queens, in Buffalo, and in Carmel, Indiana. Sessions are conducted by telehealth, which suits this practical, goal-focused work well.
Everyone starts the same way. Your first session is an intake. A fuller history comes out of the early work, and you and your therapist turn it into a treatment plan together. From there, weekly sessions review your plan and set the next step, and once a month you review standardized measures together to see whether it is working and adjust the plan.
We are in-network with most major insurance plans and verify your benefits before the first session. You can book a session online or call (646) 493-4007.
At a glance
| Best suited for | Adults who feel stuck and want a present-focused therapy that turns into concrete plans and follow-through. |
|---|---|
| What sessions look like | A practical, honest conversation about what you want, what you are doing, and whether the two match, ending with a plan you agree to try. |
| Typical length | Reality therapy is often relatively brief because it is goal-directed, but the length depends on your goals and circumstances, and your therapist reviews it with you. |
What can it help with?
- •Feeling stuck or powerless
- •Relationship difficulties
- •Low motivation and follow-through
- •Stress and everyday decision-making
- •Building healthier habits
Who might it suit?
- •People who want a practical, present-focused approach
- •Those ready to take action toward clear goals
- •Anyone wanting more control over their choices
What does therapy here actually look like?
The first three sessions follow a clear structure, so you always know what is coming next.
- Getting started
The first session is an intake. Your therapist asks what brought you in, your history, and what you want that you are not getting, and you rate the intensity of what you are feeling on a 0 to 10 scale. From there, your therapist walks through your life across stages: childhood, adolescence, and adulthood. A reality therapy ear listens for what you want in each area of your life, the choices you have been making, and the relationships that are not going well. You and your therapist build goals together, tied to what brought you in. The plan names the methods: the WDEP framework, an honest look at what you are currently doing, and specific, realistic plans you can act on this week. You also set one personal goal that matters to you and is not tied to a diagnosis.
- Ongoing
Weekly sessions review the plan, adjust what did not work, and set the next step, keeping the focus on the choices within your control. Once a month you and your therapist review standardized measures together to see whether symptoms and functioning are moving, and the plan is adjusted based on what the measures show.
Therapy here is measured, not guessed
Once a month you have a measurement-based care review. You complete standardized measures, and your therapist reviews the trend with you. If something is not working, the plan changes. Regular therapy is the work. The review is the navigation system that keeps it pointed at the right target.
Sessions are weekly for the first two months to build a foundation, then frequency is reassessed with you. You set the pace, and you share only what you are comfortable sharing.
You do not have to figure this out alone.
Choose a time and send your request. It takes about 30 seconds and one short form.
Common questions
Is reality therapy covered by insurance?
We are in-network with most major plans. In New York: UnitedHealthcare, Aetna, Medicare, Oscar Health, Meritain Health, Oxford Health Plans, Cigna, Optum, Highmark BCBS WNY, Univera Healthcare and MagnaCare. In Indiana: Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield, Cigna and Aetna. We confirm your benefits before your first session.
What happens in the first session?
Your therapist asks what you want that you are not currently getting. You talk through the area of life that feels most stuck and pick one place to start.
How long does reality therapy take, and does it work?
Reality therapy is goal-directed and often relatively brief. It has been used in counseling, schools, and clinical settings for decades. No therapist can promise a timeline or a result, so yours will review progress with you and change course if something is not working.
Do I need a diagnosis to start?
No. Many people come to reality therapy without any diagnosis. Feeling stuck, unmotivated, or frustrated in your relationships is reason enough to start.
Is reality therapy available by telehealth, and how soon can I start?
Yes. It works well by video because the work is conversational and plan-based. You can book online at any time, and we respond within one business day.
Does reality therapy blame me for my problems?
No. It draws a line between what happened to you and what you can do next. Your therapist takes your circumstances seriously and then focuses on the choices that are actually within your reach.
How do I get started?
- 1
Check your insurance
Most major plans are accepted, and checking takes under a minute.
See if we take your insurance - 2
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Meet your therapist
Your first session is an intake. Your therapist asks what brought you in, and you set a weekly time together.
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